Deborah, I too went to this website for those same links (after listening to the piece in my car), and also couldn't find them posted here. I know of the Lambda Legal fund which was mentioned (and a Google check will easily get you to their site) Another site recomended for money matters re. same sex couples was: www.queercents.com There was one other recommendation I couldn't catch or remember from first listen to the show (and i had to download the MP3 and listen several times to 'get' it): www.nolo.com Hope that helps ================ Comments By deborah reed From milwaukee, WI, 09/12/2009 please direct me to the websites you mentioned in the discussion about same sex financial matters. i am not finding it. thank you very much!